{"id":72304,"date":"2026-04-16T09:19:34","date_gmt":"2026-04-16T02:19:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/tam-ly-con-nguoi-thay-doi-the-nao-qua-cac-ky-hop-lop\/"},"modified":"2026-04-16T09:35:25","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T02:35:25","slug":"tam-ly-con-nguoi-thay-doi-the-nao-qua-cac-ky-hop-lop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/tam-ly-con-nguoi-thay-doi-the-nao-qua-cac-ky-hop-lop\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o qua c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Th\u1ee9 n\u0103m, 16\/4\/2026, 08:58 (GMT+7)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd Larry F. Waldman cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng Larry F. Waldman (M\u1ef9) t\u1eebng c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 t\u1eeb bang Arizona v\u1ec1 Wisconsin tham d\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 50 n\u0103m t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p trung h\u1ecdc. \u00d4ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ebfn du h\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti l\u1eabn nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 x\u1eed tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean. B\u00e0 Nan (v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng) t\u1eebng l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u, n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 trong c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh chuy\u1ec3n tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb khu n\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh, \u00f4ng Waldman kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 cho bi\u1ebft th\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u00f4ng m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng “t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p”, m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thi qua m\u00f4n. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong t\u00e2m th\u1ebf th\u1eddi tr\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c nhau khi nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi m\u1eddi v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169.<\/p>\n

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\u1ea2nh minh h\u1ecda: Pexels<\/em><\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd qua c\u00e1c c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u1eabn s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u t\u1eeb t\u1edd Chicago Tribune<\/em>, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Waldman cho bi\u1ebft m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp mang m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng ri\u00eang, ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1:<\/p>\n

K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 10 n\u0103m:<\/em> Th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t. C\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tham gia \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 20 n\u0103m:<\/em> C\u00f3 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t. S\u1ef1 h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng trong tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 30 n\u0103m:<\/em> Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 nh\u01b0 ly h\u00f4n, t\u00e1i h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 40 n\u0103m: <\/em>S\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec9 h\u01b0u.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 50 n\u0103m:<\/em> M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho ho\u00e0i ni\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdp l\u1edbp v\u00e0 c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i ng\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, \u00f4ng Waldman v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft “8 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi” c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc Erik Erikson. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng:<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u00f4 l\u1eadp (18-35 tu\u1ed5i):<\/em> \u1ede m\u1ed1c 20 n\u0103m ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn loay hoay v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng trong c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp tr\u00ec tr\u1ec7 (35-60 tu\u1ed5i): <\/em>T\u1ea1i m\u1ed1c k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m 30 v\u00e0 40 n\u0103m, tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chuy\u1ec3n sang s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. C\u00e1c c\u1ef1u h\u1ecdc sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng (t\u1eeb 65 tu\u1ed5i):<\/em> T\u1ea1i m\u1ed1c 50 n\u0103m, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n: “Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a?”. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Waldman cho bi\u1ebft, d\u00f9 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau, theo th\u1eddi gian, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ed1ng nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Vi\u1ec7c d\u1ef1 h\u1ecdp l\u1edbp n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a nhau, thay v\u00ec m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay so s\u00e1nh th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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