{"id":52510,"date":"2025-10-22T10:21:41","date_gmt":"2025-10-22T03:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/tim-nguoi-khien-em-me-hon-cong-viec-va-hoc-tap\/"},"modified":"2025-10-22T10:21:41","modified_gmt":"2025-10-22T03:21:41","slug":"tim-nguoi-khien-em-me-hon-cong-viec-va-hoc-tap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/tim-nguoi-khien-em-me-hon-cong-viec-va-hoc-tap\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn em m\u00ea h\u01a1n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9 em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 l\u00e0m th\u00ec c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169, n\u1ea5u \u0103n v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch n\u00ean d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i l\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y t\u1eeb l\u00e2u m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 v\u00ec em ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. D\u00f9 em l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 gi\u00e0u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian em vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch nh\u1eadt k\u00fd r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng em v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch l\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. Ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 em r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hay c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cho n\u00ean vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch v\u1edbi em c\u1ea7n b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng, th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p n\u1eefa. Ngo\u00e0i ra em h\u1ecdc ban t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00e2n V\u0103n n\u00ean vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a em.<\/p>\n<p> Em l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 tr\u1ec5, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khuya kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n v\u00ec s\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, hay c\u00f4ng ty t\u1ec7 hay c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi em m\u00e0 v\u00ec em l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u workaholic, coi tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t ham h\u1ecdc. Em h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 l\u00fd cho m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty d\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2u \u00c2u \u1edf qu\u1eadn I v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee5ng t\u1edbi t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, IT. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 em th\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb, y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 em c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c em h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ecdc, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. Em d\u00e0nh h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n hay giao l\u01b0u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8; l\u00e2u l\u00e2u em s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t hai tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0o ch\u00f9a v\u1eeba tu t\u1eadp v\u00e0 n\u1ea1p l\u1ea1i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng (em th\u00edch \u0111i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a thi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb n\u0103m em h\u01a1n 20 tu\u1ed5i). C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n. Em ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c k\u00e9o em kh\u1ecfi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1edbt. Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 thi\u00ean th\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ecba l\u1ee3i, nh\u00e2n h\u00f2a n\u00ean em quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft cho anh (em th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 handwriting).<\/p>\n<p> Em gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u00e9: tu\u1ed5i T\u00e2n M\u00f9i, t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf, qu\u00ea bi\u1ec3n mi\u1ec1n Trung, v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n tu\u1ed5i (d\u00f9 em tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nh\u1edd gen), c\u00f3 duy\u00ean, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a, r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1. Em t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u khi b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 khi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Em ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e9t ri\u00eang v\u00e0 duy\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1y theo c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u00e0, hay c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p. Em h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng qu\u00e2n t\u1eed v\u00e0 m\u1ef9 n\u1eef trong phim Bao Thanh Thi\u00ean &#8211; \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 phim y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a em m\u00e0 t\u1edbi gi\u1edd em v\u1eabn c\u00f2n xem. N\u1ebfu anh r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 gu c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt, s\u1eafc s\u1ea3o hay b\u00fap b\u00ea th\u00ec h\u00e3y b\u1ecf qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y nh\u00e9. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n<p> T\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a em kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hay c\u00f3 g\u00ec h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n, d\u00f9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc khi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i em nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb9p, \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Em ch\u1ec9 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh trong s\u00e1ng, n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00ec s\u1ef1 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. Em ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec em l\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i l\u00fd tr\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ham m\u00ea ph\u00f9 phi\u1ebfm b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1eeba t\u00ecnh hay ti\u1ec1n em. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng em d\u00e1m \u0111\u00f9a r\u1eb1ng: em mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb l\u1eeba m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Em c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i tim nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m \u1ea5m \u00e1p, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n; tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a, th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n t\u1eed, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, th\u00f4ng minh, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. N\u00f3i v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a em m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng, m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng m\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Em v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh, th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho em d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, hay \u0111au bu\u1ed3n. Em \u00fd th\u1ee9c th\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1eabn \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn sai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean em kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p> N\u00f3i th\u00eam v\u1ec1 gu c\u1ee7a em: th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m h\u01a1n m\u1eadp, cao h\u01a1n em c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u01a1n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f4i (d\u00f9 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec duy\u00ean s\u1ed1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169 c\u1ee7a em \u0111\u1ec1u cao v\u00e0 em th\u1ea5y v\u1eabn \u1ed5n). Em ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, b\u1eb1ng ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n tu\u1ed5i (nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 40), si\u00eang n\u0103ng, s\u1ea1ch g\u1ecdn, th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1eeba t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1eeba l\u00fd tr\u00ed, ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4 khan, th\u00f4ng minh, kh\u00f4ng m\u00ea t\u00edn, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat (ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat) \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 vui, th\u00edch con g\u00e1i truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng th\u00ec s\u1ebd h\u1ee3p em h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi em l\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n sinh con v\u00e0 em t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Qua \u0111\u00e2y, em kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f9ng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 nam hay n\u1eef. Em ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nhau, cho nhau ni\u1ec1m vui, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y em ch\u1ec9 mong c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a, l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m thanh th\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u00e0o khi s\u1eafp r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ee7. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, em y\u00eau t\u1ef1 do t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, s\u1ee3 ch\u1eef v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n v\u00ec ki\u1ebfp sau n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i, tai n\u1ea1n sinh l\u00e3o b\u1ec7nh t\u1eed.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 qua email <\/em><em><a href=\"http:\/\/vnexpress.net\/mailto:henho@vnexpress.net\" rel=\"nofollow\">henho@vnexpress.net<\/a> ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1 024 7300 8899 (m\u00e1y l\u1ebb 4529) \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9 em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 l\u00e0m th\u00ec c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":52511,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52510","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tin-tuc-trong-nuoc"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52510","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52510"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52510\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52510"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52510"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbbgroup.net\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52510"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}